Monday 1 September 2008

Transgender

This is an essay written by a friend of mine; Jessica Zimmerman. She's doing year 12 at small Jewish high school;Leblier Yavneh College in elsternwick. She researched Transgender issues and wrote this in response to the many questions she was getting from her peers. Jessica feels that an important part of her crusade against queerphobia and heterosexism lies in educating others.
This is an insightful and informative essay, I was very impressed with it (and her incidentaly) and I know you will be to...

Transgender Issues-Identity and belonging
Jessica Zimmerman

“The American psychiatric foundation chatagorises gender dysphoria as a very serious mental disorder.”- Doctor“After my operation not even a gynecologist would be able to detect anything out of the ordinary about my body. I will be a woman. Don’t you find it odd that plastic surgery can cure a ‘mental disorder’’- Bree
This is a quote from Transamerica, a movie of which one of the central themes is tolerance, as well as the sideline issue of the daily struggles faced by transgendered individuals. Imagine waking up each morning and instead of critiquing your thighs or pimples you hate your entire body, everything about it is foreign. From a young age transgendered individuals face the challenge of waking up each morning as someone else, a challenge that cannot be overcome by a good chat or even a spiritual awakening.
To understand transgender, it is first important to make a distinction between ‘assigned sex,’ ‘gender identity,’ and ‘gender expression.’ Sex is an assignment based on one's chromosomes, genitalia, and secondary sex characteristics. Gender identity is how a person feels about themselves in relationship to or separate from the terms "man" and "woman." Gender expression is external--how a person presents him/herself to the world (e.g. with the way we walk, talk and dress.) In society there is a commonly assumed connection between the three, men and women are expected to act and feel a certain way. Transgender, in its broadest sense, encompasses anything that transgresses these gendered norms and expectations. It is the state of one’s ‘gender identity’ not matching ones ‘assigned sex.’
When we think of transgendered individuals the mind automatically turns to sex changes and cross dressers, however the issue of transgender is much more complicated, and can often have a massive strain on an individual’s ability to form and maintain relationships with others.
Sectors of the transgendered community which are often ignored are individuals who identify with both or neither of the two genders. Feeling that to be labeled as either exclusively male or female would mean unnecessarily suppressing a part of them. This form of transgender often leaves other people in a state of confusion in speech and in manner. Not knowing whether or not to refer to an individual as ‘him’ or ‘her’ and feeling ‘uneducated’ and in some cases ‘insensitive’ either way. This confusion stems from the pre-conceived notion that ‘gender identity’ and ‘gender expression’ are both bi-products of assigned sex’. When an individual fails to comply with this unwritten law, as in the case of the transgendered, conventional labels become invalid and therefore most people become confused.
Historically in main stream society there has been little room for a middle ground when it comes to gender identity. People, who do not identify with either gender label, identify with both labels or identify with the ‘wrong’ label face adversity not only within the work force and school environments but within the public eye.
There have been countless human interest stories, talk show episodes and media coverage’s on transgender, in specific those wishing to/having had sexual re-assignment surgery (defined as transsexuals). It wasn’t long ago that ‘Miriam’ a male-to-female transsexual featured in a self titled reality television series in which several men were competing for her affection, unaware of her sexual history. After finding out the truth many of the men who had previously fallen head over heels for Miriam looked at her with little more than disgust and dismay. Her birth sex and gender identity were not compatible, which led to negative attention; however ‘Miriam’ was able to shed light on a widely held view of aversion towards transsexual individuals.
More recently t here was an article published in the paper about a young transsexual child wishing to have gender re-assignment surgery, the court had ruled in her favour and there was societal uproar. Most posing the question “how could a child not even at puberty be able to make such a life altering decision, at such a young age how can anyone be sure?” What most people don’t understand about gender dysphoria (discontentment with the biological sex one was born as) is that Gender Identity Disorder[1] (GID[2]) comes in many forms, which can appear anytime ranging from birth to adulthood [3] and is separate from hormones which bring about changes during puberty and chemicals that cause sexual orientation.[4]
[1] Gender identity disorder (GID) is the formal diagnosis used by psychologists and physicians to describe persons who experience significant gender dysphoria
[2] The current edition of the International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems has five different diagnoses for gender identity disorder: transsexualism, Dual-role Transvestism, Gender Identity Disorder of Childhood, Other Gender Identity Disorders, and Gender Identity Disorder, Unspecified.
Transsexualism has the following criteria:
· The desire to live and be accepted as a member of the opposite sex, usually accompanied by the wish to make his or her body as congruent as possible with the preferred sex through surgery and hormone treatment.
· The transsexual identity has been present persistently for at least two years.
· The disorder is not a symptom of another mental disorder or a chromosomal abnormality.
Dual-role transvestism has the following criteria:
· The individual wears clothes of the opposite sex in order to experience temporary membership in the opposite sex.
· There is no sexual motivation for the cross-dressing.
· The individual has no desire for a permanent change to the opposite sex.
Gender Identity Disorder of Childhood has essentially four criteria:
· The individual is persistently and intensely distressed about being a girl/boy, and desires (or claims) to be of the opposite gender.
· The individual is preoccupied with the clothing, roles or anatomy of the opposite sex/gender, or rejects the clothing, roles, or anatomy of his/her birth sex/gender.
· The individual has not yet reached puberty.
· The disorder must have been present for at least 6 months.
The remaining two classifications have no specific criteria and may be used as "catch-all" classifications in a similar way to Gender Identity Disorder Not Otherwise Specified (GIDNOS).
[3] Gender identity disorder in children (GIDC) is usually reported as "having always been there" since childhood, and is considered clinically distinct from GID which appears in adolescence or adulthood, which has been reported by some as intensifying over time.
[4] There is a misguided notion that links transgender to sexual orientation, specifically homosexuality. However, the only thing that binds these two communities into one is their struggle for acceptance within mainstream society. This joint community is known as the LGBT/GLBT community (referring collectively to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender/transsexual people.)
[1] Gender identity disorder (GID) is the formal diagnosis used by psychologists and physicians to describe persons who experience significant gender dysphoria
[1] The current edition of the International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems has five different diagnoses for gender identity disorder: transsexualism, Dual-role Transvestism, Gender Identity Disorder of Childhood, Other Gender Identity Disorders, and Gender Identity Disorder, Unspecified.
Transsexualism has the following criteria:
· The desire to live and be accepted as a member of the opposite sex, usually accompanied by the wish to make his or her body as congruent as possible with the preferred sex through surgery and hormone treatment.
· The transsexual identity has been present persistently for at least two years.
· The disorder is not a symptom of another mental disorder or a chromosomal abnormality.
Dual-role transvestism has the following criteria:
· The individual wears clothes of the opposite sex in order to experience temporary membership in the opposite sex.
· There is no sexual motivation for the cross-dressing.
· The individual has no desire for a permanent change to the opposite sex.
Gender Identity Disorder of Childhood has essentially four criteria:
· The individual is persistently and intensely distressed about being a girl/boy, and desires (or claims) to be of the opposite gender.
· The individual is preoccupied with the clothing, roles or anatomy of the opposite sex/gender, or rejects the clothing, roles, or anatomy of his/her birth sex/gender.
· The individual has not yet reached puberty.
· The disorder must have been present for at least 6 months.
The remaining two classifications have no specific criteria and may be used as "catch-all" classifications in a similar way to Gender Identity Disorder Not Otherwise Specified (GIDNOS).
[1] Gender identity disorder in children (GIDC) is usually reported as "having always been there" since childhood, and is considered clinically distinct from GID which appears in adolescence or adulthood, which has been reported by some as intensifying over time.
[1] There is a misguided notion that links transgender to sexual orientation, specifically homosexuality. However, the only thing that binds these two communities into one is their struggle for acceptance within mainstream society. This joint community is known as the LGBT/GLBT community (referring collectively to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender/transsexual people.)
Although not medically linked the emotional struggles faced by transgendered individuals and homosexuals are often similar. In both cases many individuals initially face choices between the acknowledgement of their sexual identity and groups that they belong to such as their families and religions (this is even more pertinent in the cases of groups that are extremely conservative.) Although eventually the majority of families and individuals come to terms with members of their group being either homosexual or transgender, many do not and continue to face internal struggles with religious contradiction. Such hardship has been well documented in films such as ‘Trembling before g-d.[1]
Ideally the world should be a place in which tolerance for all was as widely practiced as the hatred we currently see. A world in which our identity would not have to be compromised in order to feel a sense of belonging. However unfortunately this world does not exist, and as long as we as a people cannot recognise the trivialness of our differences, those that defy social norm will continue to struggle to find acceptance.
[1] Trembling Before G-d is a documentary built around intimately-told personal stories of Hasidic and Orthodox Jews who are gay or lesbian. The film portrays a group of people who face a profound dilemma - how to reconcile their passionate love of Judaism and the Divine with the drastic Biblical prohibitions that forbid homosexuality.
[1] Trembling Before G-d is a documentary built around intimately-told personal stories of Hasidic and Orthodox Jews who are gay or lesbian. The film portrays a group of people who face a profound dilemma - how to reconcile their passionate love of Judaism and the Divine with the drastic Biblical prohibitions that forbid homosexuality.

15 comments:

Kath said...

Sorry Reuben It's another long one, but it's neseccery!

Anonymous said...

Wooot! First comment (by someone other than the blog owner). Great article and a great meeting today, Kath! I can feel the traction already :D

Anonymous said...

Trembling Before G-d is a documentary built around intimately-told personal stories of Hasidic and Orthodox Jews who are gay or lesbian.

Another reason why I struggle with religion...and how it interacts with equality. I might also mention that it is that sect of Judaism that is a massive drain on the economy in Israel - and who tried to stab gay-rights protesters in Tel Aviv

Anonymous said...

SAM SANDERS HAS RETURNED

Kath said...

There is deffinatly a difference in the way israeli society is run in comparison to say Australia or America.
However many people would argue with you that it is this difference thats so important. Israel is a Jewish state, based not only on decleration of Independence of 1948, but also on the ideas of gimiut chasidim and derech eretz (two very important moral concepts that are intergral to the Jewish faith). Although you say that many individuals in the religious community are having a financial burden on Israel, i wonder if you have ever stoped to consider the spiritual benefit that they bring to the countary.

I am unsure whether or not you are aware of how a Jewish prayer "session" runs, but it is basically the praying for the collective, not only Jew's but the entire world. Our prayers state we instead of I. This is based on the principal in Judaism which states that our actions go beyond us, that we must be aware that we are a nation, and a world and we are responsible for each other.

That principal being stated, it is clear that although you may call many of the individuals who spend their day's in yeshivot praying and learning "massive drains on the economy", Judaism would say that they are merely davening and learning for the rest of us who do not.
We all play different roles in life and in a society Ruben.

Of course i understand your issue with those individuals who throw stones at gay parades etc etc. I too am outraged at these events, and so as you must know are most other people.(even the religious ones) However what you must realise is that these few people are merely a few extremists out of a massive community of people.

I'm sure you wouldn't like it if a Hasidic Jew started lumping all homosexuals or even all Australians into one extreme catagorey. Yet I wonder if you realise that, that is exactly what you are doing to them. Acceptance and tolerence is a two way street my friend!

-Jessica Zimmerman

Kath said...

V: Thanks, tis a great article, written by a great wom*n.

rvb: As I have told you countless time Reuben you can not blame the Torah, the bible, the Koran or any other religious text for the homophobia in our world today. The fact is that the rulers have an interest in keeping the nuclear family thriving-this leads to the oppression of queer's and wom*n.
The bible forbids us from wearing clothes made of wool and cotton yet this is far from taboo.

Religious queers go through a process of questioning and sometimes painful soul searching to work out how, if they can reconcile their religious beliefs with their sexuality.

To all: (don’t mean to make an example of you Reuben and I'm not suggesting you're anti-sematic)
Just allow me to reiterate that this is a safe space for ALL queers and their allies regardless of age, ethnicity, sexuality, gender, religion or lack there of.

- said...

great essay. obviously written by someone extremely intelligent and well-informed.
i am sure that the people at the meeting found it really informative and interesting, just as I did.

Anonymous said...

i wonder if you have ever stopped to consider the spiritual benefit that they bring to the country.
Spirituality is something deeply personal and therefore cannot be spread to other members of society. Religion and spirituality are like a taste in, say, Watermelons (or Vegemite, as Kath would have it).
I'm sorry to have caused any offense...Kath will confirm that I am not a bigot; but I extremely displeased with the position religion has in contemporary society (be that in Israel or elsewhere...since I would presume Israel is not immune to Globalisation). People are forgetting that religion is purely a personal choice...and therefore, it should not be part of any transaction with the rest of wider-society.
I accept religion - but under no circumstances should it interfere with the rights of others. The right, for instance, to dispense with one's religion to join another if one is in the mood.
I am not anti-semetic. I have friends and some family members who relate to Judaism...and I can't imagine a life without bagels.


I'm sure you wouldn't like it if a Hasidic Jew started lumping all homosexuals or even all Australians into one extreme category.

No...but it would hardly surprise me.

Religious queers go through a process of questioning and sometimes painful soul searching to work out how, if they can reconcile their religious beliefs with their sexuality.

I have much respect for such a brave attempts...but my sense of realism tells me that in order to be accepted within pious circles, you need to conform to the dogma in such religious texts. I know there are secular elements within Judaism and Christianity that embrace queers - but in the case of Hasidism, or any other extreme element in any religion, it is wishful thinking.

Kath said...

Reuben:
This was the sentiment of A Rabbi from the documentry:
gay people can be happily chassidic/orthodox because there is a concept in Judiasm which states that if i person has absolutly no choice in a matter (and they have tried for ages to no avail) then they are no longer transgressing by "breaking" that given rule (yet g-d is the only one who can know who can and cannot control their actions, so it is our role as humans to give people the benefit of the doubt, we cannot judge a fellow man to the degree of his heart, only g-d can do that

-Jessica

Kath said...

the concept is g-d cannot ask us to do something that we cannot do and therefore although in most cases we should be "straight" (this ensures the continuation of the species, pre IVF days) there are execptions.

-Jessica again

Anonymous said...

Whilst I understand that it's your interpretation...and my interpretation too if I were a believer...it's unlikely that those who seek to oppress queers will view it that say.
That is to say, there are also atheists who are queerphobic.

Kath said...

_ :
Indeed she is carma. The positive feed back has been great :)

Anonymous said...

The meeting was superb. Whilst the content is an interest of mine, I also thought the whole activism-vibe running through my spine.

Kath said...

yeah so did I!
It was great! Our first meeting was great to, but certainly i felt the activism in the room more strongly this time. It like, fuck that! they're making it difficult for us...well...we'll just see about that!
w00t!
Go Quails/QUAC/ namless force!
(Qualis-Nat got from Queers and Allies. QUAC-Queers & Allies Coup. I also like ducks :P)

Anonymous said...

Ducks are good. Especially with rice.